Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Read and wanted to share...

"It hurts to love someone who will not respond, but what hurts more is to love someone and never find the courage to tell them how you feel. Maybe God wants us to meet a few incorrect people before we find the right one, so that in the end, when we meet them, we know how to be grateful for that marvelous gift. One of the saddest things in life is meeting someone who means everything in life to you, so that in the end you can realize that it was nothing. And you actually have to let them go. When the door to happiness is closed on you, another is opened, but some times we look at the closed door so much that we don’t see the one that has been opened in front of us. It is true that we don’t know what we have until we have lost it. But it is also true that we don’t know what we have been missing until we find it. Giving someone all your love will never guarantee their love in return, but don’t expect them to love you back, only hope that the love will grow in the others heart. But if it does not grow be happy because it grew in yours. There are things that I could find you hearing, that you would never hear from the person who you hope to hear them from, but don’t be so deaf to hear them from that person who says them from the bottom of their heart! Never say good bye if you still want to try. Never feel like you give up if you feel you can still keep winning. Never tell someone that you don’t love them if you can't let them go. Love comes to he who waits, even when he has been deceived, to the ones who have been traded on, to he who still needs to love, even though he has been hurt, and he who has the willingness to confidence again. Loving is letting those we know be who they are, and not trying to transform them into our own image, because we would only be loving the reflection of our self in them. Don’t go by exterior looks and beauty, you can be fooled. Go for someone who makes you smile and laugh. There moments in which we miss a person so much that we want to take them out of our dreams and hug them. I hope that you dream with that special someone, dream whatever you want, go wherever you want because you only have one life and one opportunity to do all that you want to do. For someone who can make a dark day shine. I hope you have sufficient happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough pain to keep you human, and enough hope to be happy. The happiest people don’t always have the best of everything, the take the best of everything they find on their journey."

2 comments:

BK said...

So I hadn't read your blog in a while and I needed to catch up on it. Good stuff! You make me smile D :)

Anonymous said...

Wow, that was deep. Especially after the one question I just asked you on the phone.

You are getting there. The right door will open in time. Make sure that the one opening that door is the person that is ready and right for what awaits them once the door has been opened. i.e. You become what they need before they meet you. I have found that hard when I was uncertain of who they were. Oh how good God is however!